Self love – 2

When anyone says darkest, what really comes first in our mind. Let’s think over it little. Abstract darks are most horrible place. No need to curd your head over it too much. This article will clear that all blurs.

Whenever a person takes a step back, she/he looks weak. We literally don’t care what are the circumstances that are putting him/her to go for that. Eve hardest sometimes may break, what that suggests? Not always it’s right to look ourselves as a failure or winner, right or wrong. Why to forget our fighter spirit in  this partitions. Honestly,in the baddest times, there is no one to drag your mindset from that hellish bottom. No one cares. World is very busy. Who will want to travel journey of your inner feelings?What can really put us in the dark. Let us mention some points.

1.Ignorance strategy – Actually we ignore our own intuitions and concentrate on the status where others want us to be. 2.Sharing issues – Right person to share our wrongs. Who is that? A friend who stops you from fake rules of modernisation like drinking, smoking. Parent, who can put your secret as a real secret instead of choking your thought on that. 3.Judgemental issue-when we start excepting others’ judgements as our remark or correction, we get ourselves into the biggest shit. Be open to judgements.

Don’t run on special paths, create your own.

An interview with the Indian army man.

This article is a part of interview of Indian army personnel SAMEER KHAN taken by reporter AKSHAT NEGI.

Akshat :Jai Hind Sir!

Sameer:Jai Hind! It is good to see someone talking to me in this busy world and it is great to have a personality who is going to question me.

Akshat:Hmm! You are the part of peacemaker and peace creator in KASHMIR. It is pleasure to talk to you and questioning is in our blood sir.

Sameer:Well, I find my breath, peace and pain, all here,in Kashmir.

Akshat :But the circumstances are dangerous, how you all manage your breath here. A place where youth throws stones on you whenever you try to catch or encounter a militant.

Sameer:Let me tell u one important thing. They may or may not want us. But the need exists. Kashmir’s matter is not a small issue. It is a crack in Unity of our nation. And about the circumstances, the day I was selected as a part of CRPF, I pledged to live and die for BHARAT MATA.

Akshat:But sir I have heard about your story. And that is completely painful.

Sameer:My story. An army is not born to even think about self. I find my life in the people of Kashmir. I hope to change their self-destructive thoughts. Mindset of JIHAD. An as a part of most beautiful job, I find an innocence in kashmiri youth.

Akshat :Innocence? But sir….

Sameer :See, we spent more time with them, not our own children. No father wants to hurt his child, his star at any cost.

Akshat :Sir, please tell brief about what happened to you? What has brought you in this horrible condition.

Jai Hind!
Second part will come soon. 

Brut speakers on ‘SHE’ – 1

Whenever there comes any rape case or sexual crime against female society, there induces a sudden and fortunate response from the people of the nation. Responses come in faces like protest, marches on roads and many other ways. However during elections our political leaders, a group of people within whom we choose our policy makers makes many comments on female society which are unfortunate, shameful and punishable. It is not just an article but a part of that platform where we are going to raise a very important issue. It might look giving hype to something that is not really needed. But it is very much to be discussed issue. To highlight any issue, the best way is to underline the examples. And Indian politics are very much interested to provide us with that.

1.During 2014 U. P election run-up, S. P (Samajwaadi party) leader MULAYAM SINGH has vomit out a very disgusting statement to top our examples list.

‘Boys will be boys, mistakes can be made. First girls become friends with boys. Then when they have differences between them, girls level rape charges. Boys commit mistakes. Will they be hanged for rape?’

Just translate in hindi. How vulgar it sounds. Such a statement from a senior leader is horrible . This was spoken by him as a move for opposing capital punishment for rape.

2. Another unfortunate and remarkable statement by MULAYAM SINGH YADAV is highlighted below.

‘The woman reservation bill will only benefit rich and urban women. Poor rural women are not attractive. I will not say beyond this. If Bill would be passed,it would provoke young men to whistle in the Parliament’.

This was vomited by him while objecting Women Reservation Bill in 2010.

3.Congress leader has also succeeded to obtain his place in this unfortunate list. We are talking about DIGVIJAY SINGH.

‘sau tunch maal – a slang used in North india’.

He complemented Rahul Gandhi’s aide Meenakshi Natarajan. Later he clarified that he meant to call her ‘pure gold’. Really horrific.

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Self-love – 1

Love, the most beautiful word. Love, the most calming emotion.

True beauty of love could be only find at the moment we begin inducing that feeling with self. It might sound selfish, self-centred talk. What actually determines self-respect. How can you ask for it?

Well, self love literally and surely determines how you are going to find yourself. Being a housewife, what you wish and where you see yourself? Being a jobless dad, how you look at your replica? Being a failure, where you see your reflections?

Your doubtful answers will express your grief. Your lips may shiver because of shame. Tears will hide your feelings but what about that wound in your soul where you have created a hell for yourself with your thoughts regarding the fact ‘how society looks at you?’, ‘what your child thinks about you? ‘.

But what if you perceive these sorrowful moments of life as part of his play, not your fault everytime. Atleast stop calling all the pains and bad conditions a result of your choices.

You can’t control other’s head. However there are complete chances that you can ignore that. ‘Ignorance can be a key to some peace, just choose it rightly where to ignore’..

Break the cages with self love.

‘Don’t let the people prison your smile Don’t let your thoughts lock that cage.’

Fuck the judgements

The title might look unhealthy. Well you have a right to take it as you want. Moreover it is just you judging it in your personal way.

When a child is born, it is judged by the gender. And instantly people put the child in a category fitting to collection of their judgements. Do you have heard that live voice chatting. Of course No!

Do that chat mattered u or played some role in your actions. Well, you would say Noop! Not at all!

But now since you are a grown up he or she, it really bothers you. It really starts disturbing your choices. What should be your aim? How you should dress up? And now does all that affect you? You admit it or not but Yes! It really affects all of us..

Now you dress up with the colours that really don’t cheer you up. You might have also changed your passion or interests just because judgements started attracting you instead of your own comfort and confidence.

That innocence of childhood can’t be brought to u again. Nor you can shut all the sit mouths.

What really needs to be done?? There should be a connection formation between your heart and choices. Become completely open to judgements.

Because it is going to work for you better if you adopt a strategy of ignorance for the bouncer of judgements…

Don’t limit me.

What is the basic idea of choosing what is right or wrong??

You might modify your answers in different ways but the point will be same. What is that?

See we have accepted the woman in office but why we can’t accept the man in kitchen. We can’t see our son playing with dolls and wearing pink.

A lot comes as change. We need to except that. At least, don’t resist the changes that are natural.

Well I am saying to invite the changes. We can’t delay evenings, we can’t decrease the scorching heat of afternoons. Can we????

In parallel, why can’t we accept the uncommon things in our child. Why to call his differences as weird. Why to call someone a abnormal just because he/she is not fitting well in our so called family like society.

Stop putting this sit of bad and good, wrong and right over the one you have given life..

Love your as he/she is. Maybe one day your love will fit his heart and soul in a world where he/she could create joy.

Stand as a doraemon with your nominated.